Why moving up costs more than the price difference

The sticker price gap between your house and the next one is the number everybody anchors on, and it is the least important one on this page. Three other things move at the same time. Your rate resets to whatever the market is charging today, and for anyone who borrowed in 2020 or 2021 that is a doubling. Your balance goes up, because the proceeds rarely cover as large a share of a bigger house as your original down payment covered of a smaller one. And the clock restarts: a fresh thirty-year loan undoes every year of amortization you have already paid for, which is why the lifetime interest difference on this page is so much larger than the price difference between the two houses.

Where to go from here

This page compares loan against loan. For the whole payment on the house you are moving to — property tax, insurance, PMI and HOA on top of what is shown here — run the price through the mortgage calculator. If the new rate is the part you cannot stomach, the prepayment calculator shows what throwing extra at the balance actually buys you, and the refinance calculator is where to model swapping the new loan for a cheaper one later, if rates come back down.

What this page assumes

Figures are estimates for planning, not a loan offer. Only principal and interest are compared, so the real gap is wider than what is shown: the more expensive house also carries more property tax and more insurance, and if your proceeds do not reach 20% down you will pay PMI on top. Beyond that: both rates are fixed for the full term, so ARMs, buydowns, and points are not modeled; agent commission is negotiable; the calculation assumes the sale funds the purchase cleanly, with no bridge loan, rent-back, or double move; and moving costs, repairs, and buyer concessions are not included. Confirm anything consequential with your lender and your agent.